Hello
Gentle Reader,
Erato
the muse of lyrical and erotic verse strikes an enchanting figure. Though one
who has fallen out of serious fashion. Romance is a term which has a variety of
itineration’s, forms, textures and meanings. The affairs of the heart; the
longing of the eye; the mechanics of sex are compelling subjects, but also spiced
with pitfalls and landmines. These subjects are easily dismissed as being too
indulgent; while their orbital proximity to the melodramatic only hinders them
further. This does not mean human relationships or the exploration of love as
an intoxicating state of being are not serious topics of discourse; though the
intensity of the subject matter makes them molten to handle, in addition to
being a highwire balancing act. All of which requires not only careful
management of the subject but precise execution. Any wrongfoot, misstep or
misalignment and it all comes tumbling down. Samuel Richardson first showed the
possibility of exploring the affairs of the heart with the novel, “Clarissa;
or, The History of a Young Lady,” in 1748, which left readers enchanted and
enthralled waiting with bated breath for the next installment of dear
Clarissa’s story. This novel also cracked open the wellspring of sensibility,
from which all other romance narratives pull their strength from. Afterall, who
hasn’t pined or longed for just a brush with Eros? In turn, those who have swam
in the depths of Aphrodite’s embrace, are equally acquainted with the cold
plunge and shock when cast ashore. Regardless, when it comes to prose and
exploring the nature of desire, eroticism, romance, writers sail precariously
close to the window.
When it comes to poetry, however, there is
more grace. Poets such as Pablo Neruda, revitalised the soulful eroticism of
poetry. Lines with such aesthetic beauty, reverberate long after they are read
or recited as pure depictions of unadulterated love with striking originality
and sensuality, they defy the boilerplate cliché conventions, inventing new
modes and images of expression:
From
“Poem XIV: Every Day You Play,”
“I will bring you happy flowers from
the mountains, bluebells,
dark hazels, and rustic basket of kisses
I want
to do with you what spring does with the
cherry trees,”
or
from “One Hundred Love Sonnets: XVII,”
“I don’t love you as if you were a
rose of salt, topaz,
or arrow of carnations that
propagate fire:
I love you as one loves certain
obscure things,
secretly, between the shadow and
soul.”
And
there are many other poets who continue to grapple with the complex themes
related to desires, dreams and yearnings of the heart. The intoxication of
attraction. The freefall of infatuation. The passionate hunger of lust. The aches
of absence. The all-consuming pains of departures. The bitter grief of
separation. Poetry, however, is suited to capturing the intensity of the
moments. Bottling the experiences as best they can. The distillation and
concision of poetry’s nature, ensures the work is never drowning in treacle
sentimentality. For those who have been in love know its intensity is sharp and
transient. A tickle. A tremble. A flutter. A shiver. A heartbeat. The moment of
breathlessness; a lapse in one’s senses. Any lingering and the flames are extinguished,
reduced to dust and ash. The potency is in its instantaneous nature. The spark
of it. To this I was once told: we burn bright; we burn brilliant; but we don’t
burn for long.
The
wellspring of sensibility first cracked open by “Clarissa; or, The History of a
Young Lady,” has shown no signs of drying up. This is further exemplified by
the industrial production of cheap romance novels, complete with their whisk
away plots and sensual exaggerated covers. These romance novels are sprinkled
throughout the landscape of our memories and childhoods. The mass market
paperbacks picked up at drugstores or grocery stores. They littered kitchen
tables, coffee tables, end tables and bedside tables. Residing next to
ashtrays, coffee-stained coasters and the television remote. In cavernous
houses of wood paneling, shag carpet and linoleum kitchen floors; dreams and
desires wilted away just as the flowers in the vase on the windowsill. Days
filled with housework. The cooking, the cleaning, the shopping. Interrupted
with pauses for daily kept appointments with daytime television, be it soap
operas or talk shows. While there were other moments and times. Those
interludes were available to crack open the paperbacks. The scene already set;
having been pulled from a long list of prescribed templated sets. In the
forthcoming and following pages though, they chart the course of the heroine
(another stock character) and her whirlwind romance with a male figure dripping
and oozing with fantastical sex appeal. Rugged, devotional, passionate,
attentive, affectionate. The whole packaged deal. Everything that just happens
to be missing in their own lives. Married life had settled into routines. There
are no more flowers. No discrete kisses sneaked or stolen in the corners of
rooms. He snores laying facing the wall; breath reeking of beer from his night
out at the pub. The kids tucked in the for night. Dishes drying on the rack.
Tomorrow and the continual chains of days, will carry on with only slight
variations.
When
we were young, we would flip through these books – what were collectively
understood and described as smutty – to find the alleged big reveal. Though we
never found anything other then some vaguely described positioning and action.
Nothing that could be described as graphic or explicit in nature. Such visual
treatment was reserved for men, with their gentlemen’s magazines. Filled with smart
articles about sports, fishing, lifestyle, longform journalism, fiction and
intellectual interviews; all sandwiched between spreads and pin ups of
beautiful young women who stripped down to reveal all; posing seductively and
enticingly for what is now described as: ‘the male gaze.’ Each of us knew then,
our fathers weren’t purchasing these magazines for their articles, for the same
reason as we know why they were stashed out of sight. As we got older, we dismissed
our mothers tawdry romance novels as nothing but discounted intimate fantasies.
Something to entertain unfulfilled and lonely housewives. While our fathers’
collections of man-about-town magazines were nothing short of pervert material
for dirty old men.
The
appeal of romance media is the escapism qualities. While I would not go so
far to describe love as an ideal or a sustainable state of being. It is,
however, a powerful force, which is interwoven into human culture and is a
universal subject, transcending borders, cultures and languages. The
proliferation of this escapism fantasy continues. It’s an industrial complex
all on its own. Publishers discuss how the enduring romantasy genre is not just
a trend or a fad. It’s been a complete shift in readers consumptions and
habits. While there are articles out there questioning whether or not such
novels are contributing to what is being called the normalization of
anti-intellectualism or dumbing down books; I am of the school and thought:
read what you want; what’s important is you read. Further to this point, the
wildfire success of the television show “Heated Rivalry,” an adaption of a
couple of novels from the “Game Changer,” series of gay sports romance novels
by the Canadian writer Rachel Reid, showcases the enduring appetite readers and
viewers have with romantic narratives.
What
separates “Heated Rivalry,” from other viral media sensations or contemporary
shows, is its unapologetic approach to engaging and depicting sex on screen. To
the point where cut scenes and snippets of the show disseminated on social
media and on the internet give uninformed viewers the impression that its
softcore porn. Needless to say, I was the uninitiated viewer. However, over the
course of six episodes and the immediate plunge into these physical
affectionate scenes, move beyond the hook and bait catching required to grab
the attention and appetites of viewers, and instead begins to reveal an
ever-evolving relationship between these two characters. One which was
obviously predicated on physical attraction and responses, but gradually
becomes deeper, moving beyond discrete nondescript rendezvous and blossoming
into a deep-felt love. As with any romance story, the course of love is never shot
with a linear arrow. The relationship between Shane Hollander and Ilya Rozanov
is designed to be complex. From the reality of Russia denying sexual
orientation as a human right; to hockey’s hyper ultra masculine sports culture,
with one character in the show commenting on his own realization that he was
different from his team mates and was perhaps that word that was thrown around as
an insult on the ice and in the locker room. Then there is the romance trope
itself, with both characters operating as rivals on the ice and in public.
While it is a useful ruse to further support the concealment of their
relationship, it adds further complications.
The
conversations regarding “Heated Rivalry,” generally fixate on the shows
unapologetic and unbashful display of simulated same sex intimacy without
lingering over the conventional build up employed to get to these otherwise
volcanic moments. The show is taut, terse and lean. This first season consists
of six episodes and moves at an expedited pace. Therefore, sex and the physical
interactions between the characters operates two-fold. First by developing and
entrenching their characters enduring yearning for each other and second by
moving the narrative forward into further emotionally complex territory and
great character development. While initially, I was put off by what I perceived
to be a torrent of gratuitous sexual exploits of extremely beautiful and virile
men; the showrunners managed to handle the passionate and physical nature of
sex to capture both its titillating nature, while displaying the sensuality of
it, the unmentioned beauty. Even one might go so far as to say, a sense of
vulnerability. The sex scenes themselves became more akin to choregraphed dance
scenes, showcasing the entanglement and entwinement of two souls, and not just
being a romp in the sack. As for the dialogue, it’s what one would expect from
young hockey players; this includes their monosyllabic text messaging. There’s
plenty of fucks and fuck you’s bandied about, in addition to regular reminders
one is an asshole and the other one is boring. While some critics I’m sure take
issue with this simplistic dialogue, it’s important to note, hockey players are
not renowned for their eloquence, and in a world that routinely advertises – no
demands – authenticity in every way, then this is a naturalistic grasp of the
direct and otherwise repetitive language employed by these sporting
professionals. If I were to issue a criticism, it would be context was often
lost on me, which caused the characters to initially appear light or
undeveloped. For example, I am still not completely sure what was the catalyst
to their relationship or the initial spark to ignite it; but these two
brilliant breakout actors who embodied these characters filled them with such
subtle details and gestures, this compensated for a lack of context. One of my
favourite scenes is when Illya video calls Shane and sees him wearing glasses,
which causes a flustered and embarrassed Shane to remove them, yet Illya
requests he put them back on and taps his cheek beneath his eye when requesting
it. For some reason, I thought this was rather endearing. While in turn, the pain
and confusion exhibited by Shane after a particularly cold dalliance with Illya
whereby he begins to text after leaving: “we didn’t even kiss,” before deleting
the draft. To reiterate, the course of love is never shot with a linear arrow.
“Heated
Rivalry,” follows suit in the critical acclaim and success of other recent film
and television series which portray same sex relationships with equal poignancy
and enduring poeticism. First there was the tragic ghost love story “All of Us
Strangers,” which grapples with the realm of romance and reconciliation of the personal
tragedies, while touching on themes of urban isolation and alienation. It’s a
beautiful film, which handles its supernatural and fantastical elements with
grounded realism, crafting a beautiful heartbreaking narrative which concludes with
a tragic realisation. Then there was the historical limited series “Fellow
Travelers,” depicting the volatile, difficult and complex relationship between
two men from the lavender scare of the 1950’s into the AID’s epidemic. This
series as well, ultimately ends on a tragic note, but not without a bit of a
fight. Yet it’s rooted in the historical experiences of gay people who were
persecuted during this time. This is what separates “Heated Rivalry,” from its
contemporary and previous predecessors, as the narrative moves away from
tragedy. While in all fairness, in the case of “Fellow Travelers,” there were
few options for either Hawk or Tim “Skippy.” They either entered into loveless
conventional marriages, undercut with anonymous illegal hookups, or attempted
to live their lives as honestly as possible with all repercussions and
consequences this would entail, resulting in the contraction of AIDs and death.
While “All of Us Strangers,” ends on a bittersweet point of pathos, it remains an
exquisite ethereal rendered film. Regardless, it is nice to see a same sex
romance narrative end on the precipice of hope. The final drive in the golden
hour, the day softens into an encroaching evening with tomorrow holding real
possibilities. In addition to this, the beauty of “Heated Rivalry,” is the
portrayal of this relationship in the same bewildering and wonderous way as
described by Leo from Herta Müller’s novel, “The Hunger Angel,” when he confesses
his own first experiences with an illicit tryst in the park: “Something had
just happened to me. Something forbidden. Something strange, filthy, shameless,
and beautiful.” The relationship of Shane and Illya is portrayed not only as
beautiful, but natural and normal. They fall into each other with ease. The
unabashed sex may have enticed many viewers into watching the show, but what
they were treated to went far beyond the mechanics of copulation.
The
other component of “Heated Rivalry,” which separates it largely from its
predecessors, is the show exists purely within the harlequin romance fantasy.
This show is not looking to bring any social or political critique to its
narrative. Yes, Russia’s draconian LGBT Propaganda laws are referenced and
brought up, but they are not the focal point of the television show. “Heated
Rivalry,” is not designed as a show to take aim and issue with these laws, let
alone debate or criticise them. Rather their reality is a feature of the
landscape. A complication and shadow of a threat that Illya endures and manages.
Some critics took umbrage with the shows lack of engagement with real world
issues of homophobia or heterosexism. Here again though, this is not the point.
“Heated Rivalry,” splinters off and becomes beautiful because it has decided to
be a simple romance story. It does not seek to punch above this; yet ironically
in turn hits all the right keys, tones and ques, strikes above the treacle
sentimentality the genre is usually tarred and feathered in. The burgeoning
relationship between Shane and Illya is littered with enough road blocks and
issues; statements regarding international politics, scenes of displacement and
disownment, or familiar strife would pull the narrative away from the
cloistered world of these two individuals navigating their emotions for one
another. The love between Illya and Shane is built on the empathetic
understanding that their love suffers from the same level of consequence,
uncertainties and risks as any heterosexual relationship, with, perhaps some
added levels of complications. Still, love is love.
Romance
may have fallen out of serious discussion. While poetry is given greater reign
to ruminate on the matter, revitalizing and exploring the eroticism of the
soul. Television shows such as “Heated Rivalry,” have begun to introduce a new
level of nuance to the escapism the genre expertly facilities. One beyond the bubble gum
superficiality which is often associated with it. While other writers, such as
Elfriede Jelinek as a prime example, have taken romance novel tropes and
contorted them into a viscous psychosexual satire turned sociopolitical
commentary; it is nice to see – now and then at least – a television show which
appears to accept the limitations of the romantic trope, yet enhance them by
embracing them all the same. “Heated Rivalry,” is not perfect by any means; but
it’s a beautifully shot show, with incredible actors and plenty of unabashed choregraphed
sex scenes between beautiful people, which may leave you longing for your own
now departed juvenescence. Though I maintain – for now at least – “Heated
Rivalry,” continues the narrative evolution that Patricia Highsmith first
pioneered with her novel “The Price of Salt,” (republished as “Carol,”) which
upon its initial publication in 1952 brazenly changed the course of the ending
of the gay oriented novel, by allowing her characters the possibility of a
happy ending. Rather than ending in suicide or some other god forsaken tragedy
(marriage) which was the prescribed ending of such stories. Though I doubt
Highsmith would appreciate the notion of “Heated Rivalry,” standing on her novel’s
shoulders, it certainly occupies similar ground, by continuing to open the door
for these narratives of love to blossom not under the threat of oppression or
exposure, but as works that define love as a human concept. Free from societal
limitations, but made complicated by our own emotional miscommunications. Afterall,
all love deserves sunshine.
Thank
you For Reading Gentle Reader
Take
Care
And
As Always
Stay
Well Read
M.
Mary