Hello Gentle Reader,
Erato the muse of lyrical and erotic verse strikes an enchanting figure. Though one who has fallen out of serious fashion. Romance is a term which has a variety of itineration’s, forms, textures and meanings. The affairs of the heart; the longing of the eye; the mechanics of sex are compelling subjects, but also spiced with pitfalls and landmines. These subjects are easily dismissed as being too indulgent; while their orbital proximity to the melodramatic only hinders them further. This does not mean human relationships or the exploration of love as an intoxicating state of being are not serious topics of discourse; though the intensity of the subject matter makes them molten to handle, in addition to being a highwire balancing act. All of which requires not only careful management of the subject but precise execution. Any wrongfoot, misstep or misalignment and it all comes tumbling down. Samuel Richardson first showed the possibility of exploring the affairs of the heart with the novel, “Clarissa; or, The History of a Young Lady,” in 1748, which left readers enchanted and enthralled waiting with bated breath for the next installment of dear Clarissa’s story. This novel also cracked open the wellspring of sensibility, from which all other romance narratives pull their strength from. Afterall, who hasn’t pined or longed for just a brush with Eros? In turn, those who have swam in the depths of Aphrodite’s embrace, are equally acquainted with the cold plunge and shock when cast ashore. Regardless, when it comes to prose and exploring the nature of desire, eroticism, romance, writers sail precariously close to the window.
When it comes to poetry, however, there is more grace. Poets such as Pablo Neruda, revitalised the soulful eroticism of poetry. Lines with such aesthetic beauty, reverberate long after they are read or recited as pure depictions of unadulterated love with striking originality and sensuality, they defy the boilerplate cliché conventions, inventing new modes and images of expression:
From “Poem XIV: Every Day You Play,”
or from “One Hundred Love Sonnets: XVII,”
or arrow of carnations that propagate fire:
I love you as one loves certain obscure things,
secretly, between the shadow and soul.”
And there are many other poets who continue to grapple with the complex themes related to desires, dreams and yearnings of the heart. The intoxication of attraction. The freefall of infatuation. The passionate hunger of lust. The aches of absence. The all-consuming pains of departures. The bitter grief of separation. Poetry, however, is suited to capturing the intensity of the moments. Bottling the experiences as best they can. The distillation and concision of poetry’s nature, ensures the work is never drowning in treacle sentimentality. For those who have been in love know its intensity is sharp and transient. A tickle. A tremble. A flutter. A shiver. A heartbeat. The moment of breathlessness; a lapse in one’s senses. Any lingering and the flames are extinguished, reduced to dust and ash. The potency is in its instantaneous nature. The spark of it. To this I was once told: we burn bright; we burn brilliant; but we don’t burn for long.
The wellspring of sensibility first cracked open by “Clarissa; or, The History of a Young Lady,” has shown no signs of drying up. This is further exemplified by the industrial production of cheap romance novels, complete with their whisk away plots and sensual exaggerated covers. These romance novels are sprinkled throughout the landscape of our memories and childhoods. The mass market paperbacks picked up at drugstores or grocery stores. They littered kitchen tables, coffee tables, end tables and bedside tables. Residing next to ashtrays, coffee-stained coasters and the television remote. In cavernous houses of wood paneling, shag carpet and linoleum kitchen floors; dreams and desires wilted away just as the flowers in the vase on the windowsill. Days filled with housework. The cooking, the cleaning, the shopping. Interrupted with pauses for daily kept appointments with daytime television, be it soap operas or talk shows. While there were other moments and times. Those interludes were available to crack open the paperbacks. The scene already set; having been pulled from a long list of prescribed templated sets. In the forthcoming and following pages though, they chart the course of the heroine (another stock character) and her whirlwind romance with a male figure dripping and oozing with fantastical sex appeal. Rugged, devotional, passionate, attentive, affectionate. The whole packaged deal. Everything that just happens to be missing in their own lives. Married life had settled into routines. There are no more flowers. No discrete kisses sneaked or stolen in the corners of rooms. He snores laying facing the wall; breath reeking of beer from his night out at the pub. The kids tucked in the for night. Dishes drying on the rack. Tomorrow and the continual chains of days, will carry on with only slight variations.
When we were young, we would flip through these books – what were collectively understood and described as smutty – to find the alleged big reveal. Though we never found anything other then some vaguely described positioning and action. Nothing that could be described as graphic or explicit in nature. Such visual treatment was reserved for men, with their gentlemen’s magazines. Filled with smart articles about sports, fishing, lifestyle, longform journalism, fiction and intellectual interviews; all sandwiched between spreads and pin ups of beautiful young women who stripped down to reveal all; posing seductively and enticingly for what is now described as: ‘the male gaze.’ Each of us knew then, our fathers weren’t purchasing these magazines for their articles, for the same reason as we know why they were stashed out of sight. As we got older, we dismissed our mothers tawdry romance novels as nothing but discounted intimate fantasies. Something to entertain unfulfilled and lonely housewives. While our fathers’ collections of man-about-town magazines were nothing short of pervert material for dirty old men.
The appeal of romance media is the escapism qualities. While I would not go so far to describe love as an ideal or a sustainable state of being. It is, however, a powerful force, which is interwoven into human culture and is a universal subject, transcending borders, cultures and languages. The proliferation of this escapism fantasy continues. It’s an industrial complex all on its own. Publishers discuss how the enduring romantasy genre is not just a trend or a fad. It’s been a complete shift in readers consumptions and habits. While there are articles out there questioning whether or not such novels are contributing to what is being called the normalization of anti-intellectualism or dumbing down books; I am of the school and thought: read what you want; what’s important is you read. Further to this point, the wildfire success of the television show “Heated Rivalry,” an adaption of a couple of novels from the “Game Changer,” series of gay sports romance novels by the Canadian writer Rachel Reid, showcases the enduring appetite readers and viewers have with romantic narratives.
What separates “Heated Rivalry,” from other viral media sensations or contemporary shows, is its unapologetic approach to engaging and depicting sex on screen. To the point where cut scenes and snippets of the show disseminated on social media and on the internet give uninformed viewers the impression that its softcore porn. Needless to say, I was the uninitiated viewer. However, over the course of six episodes and the immediate plunge into these physical affectionate scenes, move beyond the hook and bait catching required to grab the attention and appetites of viewers, and instead begins to reveal an ever-evolving relationship between these two characters. One which was obviously predicated on physical attraction and responses, but gradually becomes deeper, moving beyond discrete nondescript rendezvous and blossoming into a deep-felt love. As with any romance story, the course of love is never shot with a linear arrow. The relationship between Shane Hollander and Ilya Rozanov is designed to be complex. From the reality of Russia denying sexual orientation as a human right; to hockey’s hyper ultra masculine sports culture, with one character in the show commenting on his own realization that he was different from his team mates and was perhaps that word that was thrown around as an insult on the ice and in the locker room. Then there is the romance trope itself, with both characters operating as rivals on the ice and in public. While it is a useful ruse to further support the concealment of their relationship, it adds further complications.
The conversations regarding “Heated Rivalry,” generally fixate on the shows unapologetic and unbashful display of simulated same sex intimacy without lingering over the conventional build up employed to get to these otherwise volcanic moments. The show is taut, terse and lean. This first season consists of six episodes and moves at an expedited pace. Therefore, sex and the physical interactions between the characters operates two-fold. First by developing and entrenching their characters enduring yearning for each other and second by moving the narrative forward into further emotionally complex territory and great character development. While initially, I was put off by what I perceived to be a torrent of gratuitous sexual exploits of extremely beautiful and virile men; the showrunners managed to handle the passionate and physical nature of sex to capture both its titillating nature, while displaying the sensuality of it, the unmentioned beauty. Even one might go so far as to say, a sense of vulnerability. The sex scenes themselves became more akin to choregraphed dance scenes, showcasing the entanglement and entwinement of two souls, and not just being a romp in the sack. As for the dialogue, it’s what one would expect from young hockey players; this includes their monosyllabic text messaging. There’s plenty of fucks and fuck you’s bandied about, in addition to regular reminders one is an asshole and the other one is boring. While some critics I’m sure take issue with this simplistic dialogue, it’s important to note, hockey players are not renowned for their eloquence, and in a world that routinely advertises – no demands – authenticity in every way, then this is a naturalistic grasp of the direct and otherwise repetitive language employed by these sporting professionals. If I were to issue a criticism, it would be context was often lost on me, which caused the characters to initially appear light or undeveloped. For example, I am still not completely sure what was the catalyst to their relationship or the initial spark to ignite it; but these two brilliant breakout actors who embodied these characters filled them with such subtle details and gestures, this compensated for a lack of context. One of my favourite scenes is when Illya video calls Shane and sees him wearing glasses, which causes a flustered and embarrassed Shane to remove them, yet Illya requests he put them back on and taps his cheek beneath his eye when requesting it. For some reason, I thought this was rather endearing. While in turn, the pain and confusion exhibited by Shane after a particularly cold dalliance with Illya whereby he begins to text after leaving: “we didn’t even kiss,” before deleting the draft. To reiterate, the course of love is never shot with a linear arrow.
“Heated Rivalry,” follows suit in the critical acclaim and success of other recent film and television series which portray same sex relationships with equal poignancy and enduring poeticism. First there was the tragic ghost love story “All of Us Strangers,” which grapples with the realm of romance and reconciliation of the personal tragedies, while touching on themes of urban isolation and alienation. It’s a beautiful film, which handles its supernatural and fantastical elements with grounded realism, crafting a beautiful heartbreaking narrative which concludes with a tragic realisation. Then there was the historical limited series “Fellow Travelers,” depicting the volatile, difficult and complex relationship between two men from the lavender scare of the 1950’s into the AID’s epidemic. This series as well, ultimately ends on a tragic note, but not without a bit of a fight. Yet it’s rooted in the historical experiences of gay people who were persecuted during this time. This is what separates “Heated Rivalry,” from its contemporary and previous predecessors, as the narrative moves away from tragedy. While in all fairness, in the case of “Fellow Travelers,” there were few options for either Hawk or Tim “Skippy.” They either entered into loveless conventional marriages, undercut with anonymous illegal hookups, or attempted to live their lives as honestly as possible with all repercussions and consequences this would entail, resulting in the contraction of AIDs and death. While “All of Us Strangers,” ends on a bittersweet point of pathos, it remains an exquisite ethereal rendered film. Regardless, it is nice to see a same sex romance narrative end on the precipice of hope. The final drive in the golden hour, the day softens into an encroaching evening with tomorrow holding real possibilities. In addition to this, the beauty of “Heated Rivalry,” is the portrayal of this relationship in the same bewildering and wonderous way as described by Leo from Herta Müller’s novel, “The Hunger Angel,” when he confesses his own first experiences with an illicit tryst in the park: “Something had just happened to me. Something forbidden. Something strange, filthy, shameless, and beautiful.” The relationship of Shane and Illya is portrayed not only as beautiful, but natural and normal. They fall into each other with ease. The unabashed sex may have enticed many viewers into watching the show, but what they were treated to went far beyond the mechanics of copulation.
The other component of “Heated Rivalry,” which separates it largely from its predecessors, is the show exists purely within the harlequin romance fantasy. This show is not looking to bring any social or political critique to its narrative. Yes, Russia’s draconian LGBT Propaganda laws are referenced and brought up, but they are not the focal point of the television show. “Heated Rivalry,” is not designed as a show to take aim and issue with these laws, let alone debate or criticise them. Rather their reality is a feature of the landscape. A complication and shadow of a threat that Illya endures and manages. Some critics took umbrage with the shows lack of engagement with real world issues of homophobia or heterosexism. Here again though, this is not the point. “Heated Rivalry,” splinters off and becomes beautiful because it has decided to be a simple romance story. It does not seek to punch above this; yet ironically in turn hits all the right keys, tones and ques, strikes above the treacle sentimentality the genre is usually tarred and feathered in. The burgeoning relationship between Shane and Illya is littered with enough road blocks and issues; statements regarding international politics, scenes of displacement and disownment, or familiar strife would pull the narrative away from the cloistered world of these two individuals navigating their emotions for one another. The love between Illya and Shane is built on the empathetic understanding that their love suffers from the same level of consequence, uncertainties and risks as any heterosexual relationship, with, perhaps some added levels of complications. Still, love is love.
Romance may have fallen out of serious discussion. While poetry is given greater reign to ruminate on the matter, revitalizing and exploring the eroticism of the soul. Television shows such as “Heated Rivalry,” have begun to introduce a new level of nuance to the escapism the genre expertly facilities. One beyond the bubble gum superficiality which is often associated with it. While other writers, such as Elfriede Jelinek as a prime example, have taken romance novel tropes and contorted them into a viscous psychosexual satire turned sociopolitical commentary; it is nice to see – now and then at least – a television show which appears to accept the limitations of the romantic trope, yet enhance them by embracing them all the same. “Heated Rivalry,” is not perfect by any means; but it’s a beautifully shot show, with incredible actors and plenty of unabashed choregraphed sex scenes between beautiful people, which may leave you longing for your own now departed juvenescence. Though I maintain – for now at least – “Heated Rivalry,” continues the narrative evolution that Patricia Highsmith first pioneered with her novel “The Price of Salt,” (republished as “Carol,”) which upon its initial publication in 1952 brazenly changed the course of the ending of the gay oriented novel, by allowing her characters the possibility of a happy ending. Rather than ending in suicide or some other god forsaken tragedy (marriage) which was the prescribed ending of such stories. Though I doubt Highsmith would appreciate the notion of “Heated Rivalry,” standing on her novel’s shoulders, it certainly occupies similar ground, by continuing to open the door for these narratives of love to blossom not under the threat of oppression or exposure, but as works that define love as a human concept. Free from societal limitations, but made complicated by our own emotional miscommunications. Afterall, all love deserves sunshine.
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And As Always
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